A Few Deep Questions To Ask Yourself

The importance of re-evaluating yourself

As we grow through life, we often forget to put back into perspective our whole lives. Our values, our goals, perhaps our desires and where these desires spring from, our childhood conditioning, our behaviors, our habits, etc.

And this is especially true and required of us if we are on self-improvement. Self-improvement is so efficient and effective at making people grow into better people, that one year of self-improvement proves to be as formative as maybe YEARS of "normal living", A.K.A most people's normal lives, A.K.A Junk food, video games, degeneracy, social media, and TV.

Being on self-improvement is so formative that it helps you achieve that much progress in less time. And, asking yourself deep questions and re-evaluating your habits and deeply ingrained beliefs about yourself and the world in order to induce more growth in your life is one of the best self-development exercises you can practice. It's so useful.

For example, when you got onto self-improvement one year ago, since that time, you changed so much in your beliefs about yourself and the world, about business, productivity, working hard, and your aspirations too as well as your goals. And so, having changed, you need a constant update or else you're going to run on the oldest software despite being the latest device.

So, in other words, you have to ask yourself deep questions often because you want to re-evaluate who you are and where you're going in life since you grow at an incredibly fast rate if you're a high-performer.

I suggest journalling these deep questions or answering them out loud or in your mind. Maybe you could journal one question or two questions each week, so you let yourself have tons of days to think over those questions. Or, you could do it all at once in one big evening. Or, you could answer a question a day. The choice is yours.

So, let's get to it, shall we?

30 deep questions you should ask yourself

Are you living at your fullest capacity or could you lead a better life through your actions today (steps you could take today)?

Are you not doing the things you want to do because you're scared of other people's opinions? Is it your father, your mother, your friends, or your partner?

What are the five people you spend time with and how do they benefit you? Find long-term and short-term benefits.

Are the people in your life really worth the time you invest in them (are they degenerate, are they pulling you back, are they rude to you, are they truly your friends?)

Look at whoever educated you during your childhood. Are you following your childhood conditioning stupidly in your entire life? In some areas of your life perhaps?

Are you truly authentic or are you creating a false identity? Perhaps for social prestige? Perhaps because you don't like your real self?

Are you truly authentic with your partner in your relationship? Are you acting like the big tough red-pill stoic guy instead of being authentically masculine?

What are your key values in life? List five of these key values, the ones that are probably the most important to you or the ones you can think of.

What is your deepest purpose, your deepest mission? (for masculine men, as the feminine's priority is the flow of love in intimacy according to spiritual teacher David Deida).

Are you chasing your career because of social expectations or because of the lack of masculine decisiveness and direction perhaps that your partner isn't giving, or would you prefer prioritizing the flow of love in intimacy and being authentically and unapologetically feminine? (for feminine women, as the priority of a man's life is his mission in life, his deepest calling).

What makes you truly happy in life?

If social prestige, money, and status weren't a thing, what would you do? (I'm not speaking about eating a bag of chips and watching TV all day long, I'm speaking about what you would do that is purposeful and great and aspiring).

List five of the activities that take much of your time. Why are you doing these activities? Love? Purpose? Job? Money? Status? Recognition?

Could your current partner be the mother of your children or the father of your children (long-term, fulfilling relationships), or is your current partner simply a waste of time?

How do you react to being hurt? Do you close in on yourself, through your body language or eye contact? Or are you fully open and loving?

Are you living your life to please others, perhaps your parents, your partner, your friends or family members, or maybe even your coworkers or social media followers? Or are you living it authentic to your soul?

Are you waiting to do anything until your finances are more secure, your children left home, you retired or you did this or that? Can you do it right now in any shape or form? Can you get one step closer to it?

Are there things in your life that you aren't doing out of procrastination or fear that you should be doing (maybe it is a difficult talk with someone, maybe it is something as stupid as washing the floor of your house) that are building small and constant frustrations and resentment in the back of your mind?

Do you want to do the things you want to do because you stupidly integrated other people's dreams? For example, if an influencer you admire is a businessman and he says business is so much more important than a job, are you creating a business because you integrated his dreams stupidly or because it's a true, authentic desire?

Find 5 activities you can do with your children to give them great life lessons so they can grow as better humans and share a deeper connection and love with you, the parent. (For parents only. It can be for example trying to fish for the whole day and not giving up despite every failure, which would teach your kid(s) about mental resilience).

Do you question your religion or are you following it blindly, not re-considering and interpreting it? Are you religious because your family or friends or partner is religious, or are you religious because you truly believe in god? (For religious people).

What is the person that you love most on earth?

What would a perfect day look like to you (list what a perfect day would look like to you on paper, with time schedules)?

Are you giving your masculine or feminine gifts fully, really giving it your all or are you holding back, staying in the comfort zone? What could you remove from your life to disrupt this comfort zone? What activities could you add to your life to disrupt your comfort zone?

Are you truly satisfied with your identity? Or are you still struggling with it? Are you taking the necessary action to go toward your desired identity?

Have you dealt with your own hard problems or are you still struggling with them? What can you do to overcome these problems?

Are you truly happy with your job or are you settling in mediocrity for the sake of being "safe" or "comfortable"?

What is your priority in life?

Are your friends really your friends or are they just people you forgot to or didn't dare to, dismiss and confront?

What is the top 20% of the activities in your life that give you 80% of the outstanding results? Can you, in any way, improve or optimize these activities so they are even more efficient and effective at giving you results?

Conclusion

This article might be short but these deep questions will inevitably help you grow as a better human being. These questions will help you re-think your life and your habits, your beliefs, your childhood conditioning, your identity, your actions, and everything that you probably haven't questioned in quite some time now.

I hope this article was of help to you. Try to answer one question a day or one to two questions a week if you need more time to think. You can come back to these questions each year for example or every few months, or whenever you feel like you've lost yourself, or when needed.

As always, thank you for reading, and I'll see you next time.

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