Assume Your Woman Will Always Be The Same, Accept Her Or Leave Her

Feminine energy and masculine energy

If you are a masculine man, you would naturally tend to go toward feminine woman. These feminine women possess something you don't have, but something that is all around you all of your life: feminine energy. However, her particular feminine energy and the sheer dose of it can rejuvenate your soul like no other thing can.

And, for a masculine man, feminine women are deeply important in their lives. It's a part of their lives that they cannot skip or neglect: masculine energy needs to be rejuvenated by feminine energy.

The masculine is striving for purpose, and for missions, he is directive, assertive, and strong. He offers his gifts fully to his woman and the world by giving everything he has despite his fears. He lives at his edge, enough to be pushed to grow, but not too much as to not fail mediocrely. He is always searching for freedom.

The feminine is striving for love. Being naturally free, the feminine is ever-moving, ever-enlightening, like nature or the wind or the clouds or the sea, it is an ocean of love and emotions and animation that the feminine animates and lives through. The feminine isn't as directive or assertive, it doesn't want to achieve freedom in her purpose but it wants to be filled with love. And if it's not through a man, it'll be through chocolate, TV, and junk food.

The priority of the masculine is purpose, and the priority of the feminine is the flow of love in intimacy.

Now that we settled this, most masculine men want a feminine woman in both body and mind but they refuse to "carry the burden" that a feminine woman also offers, they refuse to see this as a blessing, they refuse to smile and laugh in the humor of the moment, and they just get lost in bad patterns of relationship issues.

You see, feminine energy LOVE presence, and a man's presence is his greatest asset in life and in his relationships to his woman and to the world. Do you think most men are totally present and loving? No no no, the contrary. Most men go and watch TV as soon as they enter back home (you probably had a dad like this), most men go and have a nap after quick sex, most men are on their phones scrolling when speaking to other people, and most men are WEAK. And a weak man just doesn't do it for her.

And WEAK men cannot attract STRONG women. And when I say strong woman, it's not strong physically or mentally, meaning women who are all angular and masculine, no: I'm speaking about a woman who is strong in her radiance and feminine energy.

Most men are not present, they do not offer their basic gifts, and so their woman tests their weaknesses. They ask them if they want to go and eat pizza despite the man being on a diet. They ask them if they want to do this and that, testing their weakness, unconsciously, poking their weak spot.

All of this to say: most men simply refuse to accept the part of their woman that is also the reason why they're so attracted to women in the first place. They refuse to accept the part of their woman that is always changing of opinion and never certain but they are also attracted to this deep feminine trait. It's like I am a sailor, and I love the sea but I hate the fact it's violent sometimes. It just has to go together.

For example, men are often tired of their women having changing emotional patterns for no reason. They question their woman and ask and get angry at them but the real truth is that women's changing emotional patterns are like weather storms: men can't control it, and nothing sometimes really happens to cause this storm. It's like the clouds passing by, it happens. If you establish love in the intimacy first, the clouds will vanish letting the sunshine into your life and in your relationship to your woman.

Now sure, sometimes her changing moods can be because of a reason but even in the case of a reason, establish love in the intimacy first. Hug her, kiss her, lift her up, and run around the house like a crazy man, make a cushion fight: anything to open her feminine heart and get to the core of it.

And so, a lot of men don't accept the deep feminine traits of their woman that attract them to women in the first place, and so resentment and friction build up in the relationship.

Assume your woman will always be the same, accept her or leave her.

Assume your woman will always be the same. Don't try to change her: that is not a good approach. You should assume your woman is always going to be the same, and you should decide whether you want to stay with her or not. Assume she is not going to change.

You cannot change your women. And on top of that, even if you tried, you would probably challenge her to change which is going to push her to animate more masculine energy than her feminine energy, making her masculine grow, because the masculine grows by challenge.

Your woman CAN change but assume she will always be the same because she might be. Assume that everything to change in your intimacy comes from you. Your woman is always moody? Give her love. She is indecisive? Accept it as one of her feminine blessings and use that to train your "directive skills" instead of always asking others to choose for you what you want or should do.

If you're an unskilled and weak man to the point that you don't even want to "put up with her bullshit" (even tho it's ridiculous since indecisiveness, changing moods, and other feminine traits that might seem annoying to the masculine are made out of the energy that they so deeply seek), then you don't deserve a feminine woman in the first place. It's not her, it's you.

If you're unhappy in your intimacy, there might also be a chance that you got depolarized with your woman. Your lack of masculinity, true, authentic masculinity pushed her to take responsibility for your lives since you clearly can't do it and therefore, she animated too much masculine energy. The feminine pole has no one, she is in the masculine and you are neutral.

The basic rule of intimacy, two opposing poles that attract each other like the south and the north poles of the earth, or the positive and the negative, or, in this case, the masculine and the feminine, is gone. Polarization is over. You are depolarized.

You might also be living with a masculine woman, maybe she became like that because of your lack of responsibility and masculinity or maybe she became like that by herself because of her own bullshit (childhood experiences, workplace, etc). If that's the case, and she refuses to accept your masculine gift because she's too masculine, then that's not good: you're in a relationship where she is masculine, and you are masculine too, there is no polarization, it's like two buddies.

In these relationships, oftentimes, the man ends up sliding to the "feminine" part of the continuum whilst the woman slides to the "masculine" part of the continuum. The man ends up weak, unpurposeful, totally lost, and striving at puffs of smoke, whilst the woman ends up very decisive, purposeful, sharp, and angular.

And, if you're a feminine man this wouldn't be a problem: but if you clicked on this article then you're not one.

This is your relationship wake-up call.

ASSUME YOUR WOMAN WILL NEVER CHANGE. YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP. ANIMATE YOUR MASCULINE, LOVE FEARLESSLY HER FEMININE, AND UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE IN HER IS WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO HER IN THE FIRST PLACE, AND TAKE LIFE WITH HUMOR, GIVING YOUR GIFTS AND YOUR LOVE FULLY TO THE WORLD AND YOUR WOMAN. BE FULLY PRESENT AND LOVING.

If you can't deal with your woman, then leave her. If you're not skillful enough to penetrate her heart with love, then leave her. Also, I didn't mention a particular case: even if you depolarize yourself to your woman, you might still love her, and she might still love you. Polarization is just attraction, it's the juice of the relationship. However, love still prevails. That's why you sometimes see old couples that are always fighting but that stay together. That's love. But love without polarization isn't a fun party either.

But always assume your woman will never change. If you truly can't deal with her, then try to love her fearlessly. If she is always complaining and the relationship is going down the drain because of your lack of masculinity and her lack of femininity, simply give her love fully. Become more masculine. Literally, become a loving but strong and purposeful man. Stop doing things half-assed, do them fully. Give your gifts fully.

If your love isn't sufficient for her, if you're not skillful enough to love her, or if she doesn't want to accept your love, you should leave her and not look behind. That's a harsh truth but if you truly think about it you'll see that it's probably the best solution.

But also realize that if you're not truly, authentically masculine, she cannot be truly, authentically feminine. Feminine love surrendering into love to their man, opening up with their heart, and to do so they need to have someone to love them fully and that is fully present. They cannot surrender to love if they do not have anyone to give them love in the first place. And not in a needy, weak-boy fashion, I'm speaking about true love, in a masculine man fashion.

The weak, needy boy fashion is to always be there for her all day long (always available), never following your true purpose but just staying with her 24/24, needing validation from her, and all that kind of bullshit.

The strong, masculine man's fashion is to follow his heart's deepest purpose and to take the time to embrace his woman and give her love when he can. It's staying unavailable when occupied and available when free. It's being truly authentically masculine. It's being fully present.

Your woman prefers to have a masculine, fully present man who's fully present and loving with her for ONE SINGLE HOUR rather than having a shallow-breathing, non-present man who's not even following his deepest purpose for days. Time doesn't necessarily count even tho spending a good amount of quality time with your woman is great if it doesn't negate your deepest purpose, to the feminine what truly counts is the flow of love in the intimacy. And if you're fully present and loving and humorous and strong and purposeful for a single hour, then she'll already be happy.

Focus, like anything worth pursuing in life, on the quality of the interaction and not the quantity of the interaction. Then, if you can, mix both quality and quantity. But, never negate your purpose for her, or else she will feel it. She can feel how you bullshit yourself daily. She can feel when you're not fully present. She can feel when you're not living true and authentic to your masculine core and mission. Be on the lookout for your own bullshit, your excuses, and your shortcomings, because it hurts her more than it does you.

Conclusion

Assume your woman will never change, so you can change yourself and love her fearlessly whilst giving your gifts fully to the world and to her, being fully present and loving. If this doesn't work, if you're not skillful enough to give her enough of your masculine gifts, or if she doesn't want to accept it, then you shouldn't be with her.

Accept your woman, or leave her. But assume she will always be the same.

Also, to finish off on a quick note here, when I say that she will never change it's not that she will never change in opinion, appearance, ideas, ways of thinking, or the amount of feminine energy she has: SHE WILL CHANGE. We are humans, and we all grow. But what I mean by she will never change is: that she will always be indecisive, she will always have random moods that seem to have no reason to it, and she will always have those aspects of her feminine energy that men find so "annoying" despite being attracted to these feminine traits anyway. Accept her or leave her.

And also, she can grow, but it's for you to decide whether or not she will grow in her feminine radiance or whether she will grow in her masculine angularity. Remember, if you want your woman to be more feminine, be more masculine.

Finally, thank you for reading. I hope this article was of help to you. See you next time.

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