How To Become More Attractive To Woman (It Truly Works)

Relationships and self-improvement

If you are a masculine man like me, one of your biggest motivations in life to go out there, chase your purpose and achieve big things, is women. And, in our modern world it's almost looked as if you should do everything for yourself: but why can't we admit we do things to have the level to date incredible women too?

If your goal is to become more attractive to women, you found the right article. Becoming more attractive to women is mostly a physical and mental process, but some spirituality gets into there too, and we'll see how you can truly become a Chad.

Before we get into it tho, what I'm about to say is mostly non-quick fix advice. It's not "do this particular undercut haircut" or "put this fragrance on and this and that", there'll be some of that in one of the steps, but in reality, becoming more attractive requires a lot of patience and self-work.

Also, if you've been a "self-help autist" for the past few weeks or months, or years, you might have the mentality of "Oh, me big guy with a big black oversized hoodie in a big gym who looks extra serious and depressed, I grind I don't care about woman", and this mentality seriously is ridiculous. You're not a true man.

I know some people in my life who tell me that they frankly don't care about having a girlfriend, which is so ridiculous, because if a girl got interested in them, not only would they fuck it up by probably being awkward, but they would also jump to their feet. Fake it till you make it, as we say.

But recognizing that we, masculine men, need feminine women to rejuvenate our souls and make us complete is an important part of the process of growth. Personally, I can't be at my highest self if I do not have the motivation of a feminine woman behind it.

Exercise, diet, and sleep.

The first step to gaining thousands of points on the dating market is to simply get to the gym. Now, don't get me wrong, if you're still antisocial or weak-minded even tho you go to the gym, you will not be able to attract a high-value woman. However, getting to the gym is already a giant step forward for people who do things right.

You see, the gym will teach you many lessons, so it forges you physically and mentally. It teaches discipline, patience, consistency, hard work, and enduring the pain for better outcomes, and if you're social at the gym it can also teach you the value of a great social life.

But outside of this, on a physical and esthetic level, if you go to the gym consistently and do things correctly (weight-lifting + cardio) you will undoubtedly build muscle and lose fat. You will look way more attractive to women with muscles than you would otherwise: trust me when I say it's a game changer. It's night and day.

However, don't aim for the steroid-huge bodybuilder physique: women prefer ripped and muscular physiques but not pure mass like Ronnie Coleman or even Chris Bumstead. Most women would much prefer a muscular or even very muscular man who looks athletic rather than a ball of muscle.

Diet is also extremely important. A good diet enables you to not only make gains in the gym and make progress in your fitness journey, but it also enables you to have a clear mind, have sustained energy and presence during the day, and ultimately it makes you more attractive. On top of that, just like exercise, dieting will help you gain more testosterone if done correctly, which will make you way more attractive AND masculine.

So, eat only natural foods preferably packaged in glass or at least not in plastic boxes and containers of any kind, and eat lots of protein and fats (2g of protein per kg of body weight and you don't even need to count the amount of good fats you eat) and a little bit of carbs. Eating a lot of carbs is great for bulking and it makes your muscles bigger by retaining more water but it gives brain fog and puffiness: you're less "sharp" both physically (puffiness) and mentally (brain fogs).

As for supplementation, I recommend 5000UI of Vitamin D3+K2 or more with Creatine and Omega 3's. If you can afford it, take a Calcium supplement too. Also, remember to drink lots of water: to reduce body and face puffiness and just function well, as you need way more water than you probably think.

"Looksmaxing" tricks

Looksmaxing is a bag of tricks used by many young man and women around the world to maximize your look. Of course, exercising and staying healthy is part of it, but some little tricks such as haircuts and accessories can make you more attractive.

If you want to truly maximize your attractiveness, here is what I recommend. Beginning with the physical approach, start by having a nice haircut. According to your face shape try to find the best haircut that suits you. Just find a clean haircut that suits you, and if you want to look more attractive, ask for a fade on the side, but say that you still want some hair texture and not a fade that is too pronounced. This should help.

To find out your "perfect" haircut, try a different style! Get in your bathroom, take an hour of your time, and try every haircut you can think of to see what fits you best. Once you find it, don't let it go.

Also, before moving on to other looksmaxing tricks, don't think that you need the perfect brushed haircut with the perfect inclination of the hair. Just find a nice haircut, and let it naturally look good without having to re-touch it every five seconds. Trust me, a man who always retouches his haircut, checks himself in the mirror every five seconds, etc just looks ridiculous. You should have other things to care about. Sure, having a nice haircut is great, but you don't have to become obsessed.

Now that the "haircut part" is done, let's speak about accessories. I suggest, to maximize your looks, to buy three accessories: a watch, a ring or two, and nice clothes. You want to dress nice and formal most times.

Simply wear jeans, chinos, professional pants, good-fitting T-shirts, and pullovers (muscle fit, tapered fit, etc) as well as good-looking and simple shoes. Keep the clothes simple, don't buy clothes with too many changes of colors and stuff, just buy one color, preferably a plain T-shirt or with a logo. If you dress well you will look more attractive, that's for sure. I suggest also having sunglasses for sunny days since good-fitting sunglasses can boost your attractiveness.

As for the watch and rings, try to find a good watch and some rings to look more attractive. No need for a specific type of watch, take one that you personally like. Preferably, don't take a watch with a plastic bracelet: it looks a little "kiddy". And for the ring, which should be the last of your looksmaxing priorities, find a good-looking one in whatever color you wish.

If you use these simple tricks to enhance your appearance you will become more attractive. But remember that fundamentally, wearing nice clothes and working on yourself physically and mentally is already enough. However, if you really want to optimize your appearance to look even better, then accessories can help.

Mental work

Working on yourself mentally can enhance your attractiveness. For example, practicing meditation which is a mental exercise can help you become more present (check out my self-help basic article on meditation here), which is deeply attractive to the feminine.

Also, working on your mental health (being healthy mentally) is great. Exercising, a good diet, sleeping well, and taking care of yourself whilst following your purpose will ensure in the vast majority of cases good mental health.

On top of that, becoming more disciplined, having consistency, being a genuinely great person, serving others, and having a good self-identity can help.

Especially the self-identity part: if you have a bad self-identity you'll lose a lot of confidence which could diminish your dating value. Trust me, confidence works: if you're confident in who you are and what you do and what you wear and what you look like, you'll be more attractive.

Try to build the identity of a Chad, of someone who's strong, assertive, but also loving, who likes materialistic things (because it's necessary nowadays) but who will always favor his spiritual growth, health, mental clarity, wisdom, and presence in the world. We cannot bullshit ourselves, especially in our modern world: MONEY IS IMPORTANT. But it's not a reason to become ultra-materialistic and shallow inside.

Build a self-identity that brings you inner peace and wisdom. Become a strong and masculine man but you don't have to force yourself to "look more serious" or to "look cool". Just live, breathe, and speak as a masculine man, and you'll be one. The goal is to change your identity, with belief and action.

Just, stop holding onto insecure beliefs, and jump in the void. Hold onto the positive beliefs and let go of the negative ones, even if the negative ones seem much more "realistic" to you. Sure, if you're skinny fat and you tell yourself you're muscular, it's ridiculous, but if you're making progress at the gym and you're building muscle, then it's suddenly not as ridiculous. And it's even less ridiculous when you get the physique of your dreams.

Just CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT YOURSELF. Take your balls and start believing, having faith in the yet unseen. Work your ass off tho, prove to yourself you can do it. Some people try to find belief and then act, but the best is to act, get some belief, and use this to act even more, and it makes a sort of snowball effect until you achieve what you want to achieve. Have faith. And hard work.

But instead of searching for confidence, search for becoming better: working hard on meaningful projects (the next tip), meditating, expanding your knowledge and wisdom through reading books, and just becoming a better man. If you become a better man, a true high-value man, in mind and body, then you'll become more attractive to women.

See, our goals should not be to directly become more attractive. In reality, it should also be to become better and more masculine, and through this, you'll become more attractive.

Also, just so we get it out of the way: a high-value man isn't about having money, the nice sunglasses, and the cool-looking muscles. It's about having values, and having high values is, you know, not being deeply materialistic. It's being wise, full of wisdom and knowledge. It's understanding that muscles, money, and sunglasses are important and this contributes to your wisdom and knowledge, but being a true high-value man is being a strong, masculine man who's physically advanced, mentally advanced, and spiritually advanced to a certain extent.

Personally, I feel like the "high-value man" movement is quite a cringeworthy one, as most of these "high-value man" influencers you see online who are preaching it are still little kids in their minds, they just got more money to play with bigger toys. Seriously, look at these "red pill high-value man" influencers. Are they truly masculine, or are they trying to use this sort of "shield of materialistic masculinity" to protect themselves?

Are they really playing at their edge and giving their true gifts or are they smoking the cigar in the big chair, having made money from disgusting industries?

Instead of focusing on becoming a high-value man, focus on becoming a superior man. And to be a superior man is to work hard on purposeful missions.

Working on purposeful missions

The priority in the masculine, for man and woman, is the search for freedom through your deepest purpose. Your purpose should be your priority, at all times. Your deepest purpose is like the center of an onion: you need to peel the layers of sub-purposes to reach your deepest purpose. You might experiment with martial arts, become an actor, work at a 9 to 5 corporate job, become a salesman, and get into the army before figuring out that your purpose is to give your gifts fully to the world through the means of the love you give to your family, your work and your children's.

Maybe your mission is to reach the planet Mars. Who knows?! It's only you who limits the scope of your purpose. Your purpose should jibe with your core, it's the very thing or activity that, when you practice it, you don't even see the time pass despite actually producing work. But to discover your purpose, you need to ultimately try different things.

That's the part that most people don't like: you need to get out of your little self-protected bubble. You need to get out of your comfort zone and get out there, jumping in the void and trying different things.

Realize that most of the purposes you'll have in your life often are a reflection of your true purpose but are temporary. You might have found your true purpose quickly in life: and if you did, congratulations, if you work on it your life can only get better from now on, but most of us are wandering from project to project, writing to video editing, teaching people to cooking, we're just trying to find the right thing that jibes with our cores.

Just realize that your purpose doesn't have to be very specific. It doesn't have to be "make money" or "open my online business". This is a sub-purpose. The real purpose is more like "teaching people about self-improvement", or even wider than this, "giving my gifts fully to the world by giving love and wisdom, and receiving love and wisdom". The scope of your purpose can be very wide just like it can be very precise.

So, working on purposeful missions will undoubtedly make you more attractive because 1) it'll make you more masculine and 2) when you feel aligned with your deepest purpose and you work really hard on it, not only does your life generally feel great, but you also feel a newborn sense of self-respect or self-love.

When I started working hard on this website, I felt a newborn identity slowly build up. I felt more masculine, more confident, and more aggressive and competitive in my work: I lied less to myself, making excuses and I started working hard for real.

I just felt this sudden confidence in who I was and my identity. It's so refreshing to finally be proud of oneself. And I want this for you too. So, work hard on purposeful missions, really really hard, and in the vast majority of cases, you will feel more masculine, confident, proud, and sometimes even wise, which will make you more attractive to women.

Women love strong men, and even tho they might be saying bullshit on social media about not caring about muscles and masculinity, in reality, feminine women strive to get a man like that. They all say they don't care until they actually find a man who's like that and they're ravished, or jealous. Seriously, truly feminine women who were not biased by modern Western society like to admit that they love this type of masculine man because it's simply true: the masculine attracts the feminine and the feminine attracts the masculine.

Also, if a women truly love you, she'll say that muscles and all that stuff doesn't matter to her, and it's true too. Once a woman is really in love with you, the only thing that truly matters to her is the flow of love in relationships. Therefore, if you stay truly authentically masculine to your core, that's the only thing that matters to her. And, if your health declines, if you take less care of your body, it probably shows a lack of an authentic masculine core. Therefore, never let yourself go too much with your woman, or else you're signing your own misery.

Searching for wisdom and being present

Try to search for wisdom. Expand your knowledge on things, read books, get into spirituality, try to understand the world from your own view, list your priorities, work on your deepest purpose, and make yourself look more attractive.

Let me give you an example: do you know Marcus Aurelius? He was a Roman emperor who reigned for 19 years, from 161 A.D to 180 A.D. This Roman emperor was the author of a world's famous book, who is still of actuality nowadays and that still offers many insights on the stoic philosophy (because Marcus was a stoic): it's called Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Just know that Meditations was originally his own self-help diary where he wrote his thoughts to keep to himself, but long after his death, it was found and published (in 1559 A.D).

Marcus Aurelius was a wise man, and he is recognized in history as a great, loving leader who always strived for peace and humility. He had so much humility that one of his servants, whenever someone would make him a compliment, would whisper in his ear "You're just a man." This bought him back to reality.

We should strive to become strong and masculine men, physically, mentally, and spiritually, whilst being wise, or in other words, we should strive to become more like Marcus Aurelius. We can find wisdom in our experience, in our day-to-day life by learning things through books and also the holy scriptures if you're religious.

We also can find wisdom through science, through hard work on purposeful missions. Our goal is simply to become a strong man, full of wisdom, knowledge, health, and love for the people around him. If we can be wealthy too, let's be wealthy, and let's have a great house and a great-looking car, but if we're too focused on that, we lose ourselves.

Also, remember to be authentic. Live from your soul, meaning live from your authentic masculine core. Don't play a fake red-pill role, be authentically masculine. And for this, you need to work on yourself first.

Finally, a man's presence is his biggest asset in his life because, in our modern society, he isn't defined by how much money or food he brings to the table, since feminine women can do that too. So, a man's unwavering presence is what makes him so attractive.

If you want to gain a shit ton of attractiveness, BE MORE PRESENT. Meditate and train your brain to be more present in the moment. Speak with a woman, looking deeply into her eyes and truly listening to her. An easy way to deceive a feminine woman that you're attracted to is to not be present. If you're not present with a woman, you're essentially taking away your masculine gift from her. It's fine for short periods of time or occasional, well, occasions. But as a general rule of thumb, ALWAYS STAY FULLY PRESENT WITH A WOMAN.

So, be present. Give her your full presence, and she'll be ravished. The time you spend with a woman you want to attract should be the time you wouldn't spend otherwise at all. If you would prefer to work, then this shows that you're probably not being fully present, and she unconsciously probably feels it.

Your presence in the world is your greatest asset as a man, use it wisely. Practice being present every day, and you'll be way more attractive.

I recommend diving into your spiritual, masculine wisdom with the book The Way Of The Superior Man by David Deida. Check this article here where I speak about it to know more, it's such a great book for masculine men, it's going to teach you what true masculinity is and it's going to help you a ton with your relationships.

Trust me, if you become a strong, wise, warm, and great man of character, whilst working on yourself every day physically, mentally, and spiritually, giving your gifts fully to the world, you'll be way more attractive. And if you pair this with tricks to become more physically attractive, you will have found the formula for attractiveness. I still have much yet to learn on the subject, but from what I know, following the ideas and principles in this article will boost your attractiveness immeasurably.

Before concluding, a lot of people have heard that being a "red pill asshole" was the way to go to attract women. It 100% works, not answering messages, not caring about her, being slightly mean to her and all that shit works. But is it what you really want anyway?

Because if you want to be one of those "red-pill alpha males", you might attract a few women, but are you really doing yourself a favor? The women you will attract will probably be low-value women or degenerate women. It's the type of woman you could meet at nightclubs. Do you really want this? Don't you want a beautiful relationship where you're an authentic strong man who works on himself and she is profoundly feminine and in love with you? Instead of a toxic relationship just to be able to make love once at the nightclub? Really?

Conclusion

As a little summary, to be more attractive: do these five things. First, improve your physical health, mental health, and appearance by losing fat and building muscle through exercise, diet, and sleep. Secondly, dress well, and use good-looking accessories to boost your attractiveness. Thirdly, make sure to get your mental health, discipline, consistency, and mental work dialed in. Meditate daily. Fourthly, do hard work on purposeful missions. This will naturally bring self-confidence and build a great image of yourself. Finally, search for wisdom and most importantly, be PRESENT. If you're truly present and wise, you'll be so much more attractive to women and men too (your friends will probably trust you more, and you might attract higher-value friends).

I know these tips will help you become a more attractive masculine man. It's going to up your attractiveness and you'll be thankful for this article.

I hope this article was of help to you. As always, thank you for reading, and I'll see you next time.

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