How To Navigate Social Interactions When You're Improving Yourself

Living in a world of non-improvers

We are a society that, for the most part, sucks. I don't know for every society, but I think we're all quite the same in terms of stupidity. In our society, we're unwise. We take bad decisions and destroy our health everyday, we promote egoism and sacrifice others for our own profit.

Most people I know that are not improving themselves through good habits, often end-up being selfish, stupid and incompetent humans. Low-testosterone humans who's half obese, barely able to get the motivation to get out of the couch, not even having any dreams or projects, just living life stupidly, working for other people without any motivation, not even doing their job correctly and not even educating themselves, often end-up depressed.

I'm not saying EVERYONE is like this, but 99% of people that are not improving themselves ends-up living a shitty life, honestly. We've all got to improve, to work hard, to rest well, to take care of our health and to educate ourselves. Without self-improvement, we tend to get lost, to make bad decisions, to build bad habits, to become blinded by our ego and instant gratification. We live a bad life. A life that is for the most part meaningless.

Be it at school, college, university, at work, or in the social world in general, the people that improve themselves have to know how to deal with social relationship. It's a question that is difficult for a lot of people because they don't know, when they start improving themselves if they should quit their loser girlfriend, their video-gamer friends, and all that stuff.

So, in this article, you'll find what to do, and how to navigate these relationships. So let's get started, shall we?

How to navigate these relationships

One key to navigating these relationships is to be smarter than the people around you. A lot of people will try to drag you down, that is the truth of life for anyone out there who lived more than 5 years on this earth. From our youngest age to our death, we all meat jealous people, selfish people, manipulators, idiots, people that doesn't want you to live a good life, people that wants to belittle you.

They might do it consciously or unconsciously, but they do it anyway. Take the example of a kid telling his parent he wants to become an entrepreneur. The first reflex for a stupid parent can be to belittle him, to say he's never going to make it, to keep dreaming. By being this way, they condition their child to be a loser, even tho he might take responsibility for his life later on or even in the present and improve himself.

The parents might obviously love their kid, they're still hurting him, but why? Well, it might be conditioning from their own childhood, or their lack of self-respect for themselves, or their lack of achievements, that might cause them resentment toward a child dreaming. They haven't done it themselves, so obviously it's bad. It has to be avoided. And so many people's dreams die because of that. Look at, for example, the tons of future wannabe entrepreneurs that ends up going to work in a classical job as a cashier or a McDonald assistant manager, just because their parents told them to go find a "normal job", and be "secure".

But, let's be wiser than other people and let's avoid general wisdom. General wisdom would be to say "It's not my fault if my life is bad, it's your fault!". But fuck it, let's take responsibility for our lives and let's improve ourselves the best we can. Let's go BEYOND human conditions. Human conditions is being stuck in human problems, such as ego, vice, hate, negative emotions, stress. So let's try to go beyond that, to become super humans. Let's put our ego aside, to become better. Let's stop hating, so as to live a more peaceful life. Let's avoid stress, so as to make better decisions and regulate our emotions better. It's all about becoming better everyday.

So be SMARTER than the people around you. If they criticize you, let them criticize you, think about where you will be in a few years whilst improving yourself, and think about what they will become as "average people" in a few years. The average man that doesn't improve himself daily ends up divorced, overweight and has low-testosterone and low-self worth. Same goes for the average woman.

So try to get around good people, great people. Get around people that improve themselves every single day relentlessly, or at least that are good people and that improve themselves. There are a ton of good people out there that are improving themselves at this very moment and you can find them. The easier is when you have a work environment that is vast or you're in university or something, and here you have a ton of people to meet and speak to. But you can still meet people even in the street, in buses, at cafe's, whatever.

You can even try to convert your actual friends to self-improvement if they're not a lost cause.

Also, some people don't improve themselves daily but are still good people, so maybe take that in consideration too. I'm not saying to make them your best friend and to tell them everything about your life, because this can prove to be problematic, but for some parts of your life it can be nice to have them too.

A lot of us go through work or university with people we don't think have good habits or that are "average" or even quite shitty people, yet we continue to speak to them because we can't totally avoid them, and it's not a big deal. Sympathise with them during work or university classes, but avoid them outside of that. No need to go and speak to them everyday after that if they're still losers and they're not even good people.

Also, don't try and lose too much time on improving others. If people don't want to improve themselves, you can do anything for them, they'll still keep being losers. It's the law of life. The only thing that can motivate them is themselves, and you cannot fundamentally change people by yourself. If they're not interested, let them go, they think they don't need you, and you certainly don't need them.

Don't try to please others. You might be hated or insulted or looked at weirdly if you're on self-improvement. Not everyone takes care of their physical appearance. Not everyone reads philosophical books. Not everyone avoid watching Netflix, TV, and all that bullshit. Not everyone is a fucking loser. So avoid people that try to mock you and drag you down for that. Don't please others, don't beg for their approbation.

Don't stop reading books just to please them, don't hide your opinions in the face of fear. Sure, not saying that you meditate in front of a crowd of low-testosterone men who plays video games everyday or not giving controversial opinions about masculinity for example in front of low-testosterone blue hair women is just being smart, no need to start conflict when it's not needed and you can just avoid these people. But what I'm trying to say here is to not be influenced negatively by these people. Don't please them. They don't like you? Their problem, they'll live with hate and you live with peace.

Surround yourself with great friends and people if you can, that improve themselves and that can help you gain in wisdom and general happiness in life. Surround your social world with interesting people. Meet a ton of people, and select which one you want to keep in your life.

Remember that it's better to be alone than to be accompanied by rats. Rats will bite you, give you diseases, hurt you and speak in your back whilst jumping on you for their own profit if they can. Avoid rat-humans, they'll just make your life worse for no reason.

Do not let stupid mindsets rule over your life, avoid being influenced and conditioned too much by stupid people.

Don't be too open about your private life, your goals, your love life and more to your "friends" or "comrades", because people WILL backstab you. I'm not saying everyone will, I'm just saying most people are like that. If they can, they'll do it. Avoid sharing your privacy such as your sexual life or your relationship life to your friends for example. This can also be dangerous because first off, it's not nice at all for the person with whom you have sex or with whom you are in a relationship to speak about your privacy to others, but it's also a way for others to speak in your back and hurt you.

I'm not saying to never speak about your relationship problems and more to your closest friends, I'm just saying you should avoid going into details, especially in sexual relationships or very private part of your intimate life with your partner. And this also goes with keeping secrets, if someone gives you a secret, don't repeat it to the whole friend group. This could cause many troubles, for you and for others. So be wise.

Conclusion

Having a good social life is important, and finding good friends, a great partner, having a good family if possible, and having great relationships, is one key to happiness. Social relationships is one of the most powerful and important part of our lives, and we should never disclose it.

But, do not close in on yourself. Be open to new social interactions, even tho some people might be average. Meet and discover. Learn from older people lessons, even tho they might not all be wise at all. Maybe your grandfather ate unhealthy his whole life and never improved himself, but some life-lessons he has might be good. Try to learn from people, learn what is good and let the rest go. And if there is nothing to learn, don't learn at all.

I hope this article was of help to you, and I'll see you next time, bye.

By the way, are you interested in losing weight? Well, I got what you need! Here is the weight-loss course I made! It's an effective and no-nonsense course to long-lasting sustainable weight loss, used by a 16-year-old to lose weight, change his life forever, and keep the weight off!

On top of that, not only is it cheaper than most courses and it provides EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WEIGHT-LOSS, it also has 12 FREE BONUSES, such as habit trackers, workout plans, guides to losing weight on vacations, bulking up after weight-loss to gain muscle or even optimizing your testosterone. For FREE. All of this rich goldmine of health, for ONLY 29.99€.

If you're interested, click on the button below