The Key To Living A Good Life (From What I've Seen)

Why am I writing this article?

Do you know the Paleo principle? 80% of the activities you do give you 20% of the results, and so doing 20% of the major, important activities should theoretically and in reality give you 80% of the results. The small, important things give outsized results. The big, unimportant things give small results. This is the Paleo principle.

Most people in life do not follow this simple rule. People get through life trying to chase and pursue happiness through work, instant gratification, trips, drugs, food, etc. And these people often do badly in life. They do nothing truly extraordinary. They just exist.

So, if we want to get outsized results in our lives and find the major things that push us to be our best and to produce our best and to live our best and to simply live a good life, then we need to find the 20% of activities that gives us outsized results.

And what can these activities be? We'll see that later. Originally, this article was supposed to be for men only, as I'm way more keen in terms of knowledge on living a good life in masculinity rather than in femininity.

But, I will still include a "for women" section because I think it's important for everyone in the audience to be satisfied with this article. I might be wrong about what I'm going to say as I'm not a feminine woman myself but I'll try to give you my view on it and how you can lead a good life.

Just, if you're not really into improving yourself and this is your first time reading an article of this sort, then I think you might be shocked or questioned about your way of living, your identity, whether what I'm saying is true or whether it is some guru-esque bullshit, etc. Just know that what I'm about to say comes from personal experience so far in life AND from spiritual teacher David Deida and other reputable sources in the self-improvement space.

So, let's begin, shall we?

How to live a good life (for men)

Since the vast majority of men have a masculine sexual essence despite having been deeply feminized and degenerated by modern Western society, living a good life for men comes down to following your purpose first.

Your purpose is your mission in life. A man's purpose is his ultimate goal, it's what he strives for every day consciously or unconsciously. Your purpose can reveal itself to be a leader, to be a lover, to help people and to give them knowledge and love and wisdom, to pursue god, etc.

You need to have a direction in life. You need to have a purpose in life. Purpose is deeply important because when you are aligned with your highest purpose, your life seems to flow much more easily. When you're working hard on meaningful projects every day then your life seems to go well overall, you feel better about yourself, and your confidence is spiked up.

Having a purpose is the thing that a lot of us men miss, and having a specific direction and being decisive about this direction is also important. It's the ability to say "I'm going there" and not change your mind every few seconds because someone told you entrepreneurship was too dangerous or helping people was futile and we should only think about ourselves, etc.

Purpose works like an onion. It has multiple layers like an onion and you can unravel it bit by bit.

As you can see, an onion is composed of multiple layers, which, when peeled one by one, they reveal the green and purple core that we can see on the picture. In other words, there are multiple layers to discovering your true purpose.

You might have a ton of different "sub-purposes" that might take months or even years of your life until you can find and reveal to yourself your true purpose.

For example, what seems to be of the utmost importance to Mike Tyson, the former boxing champion who shook the world with his incredible boxing talents in the past, says now that fame and recognition and boxing and titles don't mean anything to him anymore compared to his children. And you might say, well, normal, it's his children's. But when he was younger, he was deeply preoccupied with titles, fame, and recognition.

All of this to say: he changed. As he got older, he discovered his deepest purpose, maybe it was to give love to his family or to the world. Maybe it was to have a family in the first place. What I'm trying to say here with the example of Tyson is that your sub-purposes need to be peeled before reaching your deeper and real purposes.

Just know tho that your first sub-purposes are probably dreams or conditioning from your childhood or purposes that are not really ingrained in long-term thinking and spirituality. If you always dreamed of becoming a policeman as a child you might want to become a policeman. And if your childhood conditioning made you want to be a military man (you were born in the culture, etc), then you might want to become, as a sub-purpose, a military soldier.

Anyway, I'll not speak eternally about purpose and how it works, but when your life is aligned with your highest mission OR your highest mission at the moment, and it's good for you, the people around you, and it's also good for the world, more often than not, you will lead a better life. It truly makes a HUGE difference when you work hard on meaningful projects. Trust me, it does.

This brings us to the second most important part of any man's life, as much as they want to accept or deny it: relationships. A man needs great friends to help and push him to the top, and to tell him honestly and brutally when he fucks up or fucked up. A masculine man needs masculine friends. A decisive, strong, purposeful man needs friends who will be unfiltered in the way they express themselves to their friends. If their friend fucked up, they say it frankly. It's honesty.

On the other hand, we men also need social relationships outside of our close friendships. Speaking to people, laughing with people, saying hi to strangers, and meeting new people can prove to be great for your self-esteem and overall happiness. Overall, social relationships are a HUGE part of any person's life and also a man's life.

Now sure, if your social interactions are mostly with negative people or losers or mentally immature or emotionally immature people (you see the kind of one I'm speaking about, since you're probably soaking in their stupid energy all day long at work or anywhere else), then you'll probably not have a very fulfilling social life. But if you're around good people who want to improve themselves or have a good vision in life and are positive and laughing and loving then most of the time your social relationships outside of your closest friendships will be fulfilling.

Finally, the most important relationship in a man's life in my opinion and in the opinion of millions of men out there is his relationship with his woman. Sadly people are putting less value on romantic relationships because nowadays in our degenerative society, it's almost "normal" from what I've observed and heard and seen in real life and virtual life for men to go from one woman to the next, chasing only sexual superficial matters and not profound spiritual rejuvenating and enlivening relationships. In almost all age groups, 20% of people (and therefore of men too) have said that they cheated on one partner at least. That's 2 people in a group of 10.

Some people simply do not value real, long-lasting relationships. Having a truly loving and long-lasting relationship with beautiful feminine women is much more enlivening and incredible than having quick sex with your secretary or another woman because her forms make you sexually attracted. This is ridiculous. You're literally being a bitch, bitching out to your woman that you (normally, but in this case not truly) love, breaking her heart for the sake of degeneracy.

So, value your relationship with your women. Be fully present and loving. Give her your love through your breath, the way you speak and look at her, give her all the love in the world and ravish her with so much love she can't just hold back but she's "spiritually forced" to open up to your loving, and often-times this will be seen physically too, in her opening up her body language or leaching her feminine radiance and energy into the world, etc.

Remember, your woman is the partner you'll probably be with until the end of your life. It's probably the most important person in your life. So, realize that if it's one of your biggest sources of fulfillment and love, it might be one of the keys to living a great day, and, therefore, through the years, living a great life.

Finally, self-improvement is at the root of living a great life. Improving yourself, meditating, eating natural foods, working hard on business projects, and having fulfilling relationships are all activities to better yourself which can lead to you becoming better and wiser. It's a way to grow faster and stronger than the vast majority of people, and it leads simply to a great life of pride and fulfillment. Maybe not every day as we are humans but the vast majority of days.

So, always invest in self-improvement and your health. A lot of polls on the internet report that for the majority of people, the two most important things in their lives are family and health. So, invest in your health, physical and mental. Exercise often, weight-lift, do martial arts, whatever. Eat clean, and sleep well on the majority of days.

This will lead to you living a greater life.

How to live a great life (for women)

A woman's priority, according to David Deida who is a spiritual teacher who's widely famous and recognized, is the flow of love in intimacy, be it with a man or with god. If a woman's life is fully flowing with love, in the relationship with herself, her man, god if she is religious, and her children, she will be radiant in her feminine energy and/or she will be on the path to living a great life.

So, if a woman's priority is her relationship, she needs to invest her time in it. Be it with her men, her god, her children, or her family members as well as her friends, she needs the flow of love to be flowing deeply to feel fulfilled. She needs to have a great relationship with the most important people in her life to feel fulfilled.

She needs to be filled with love by her man and totally surrendering to love and giving her fullest feminine gifts from there and her radiant blessings and her enlivening gaze to fully embody the feminine potential for greatness. The key to living a great life, a happy life, and a fulfilling life in women is to prioritize the flow of love in relationships.

The flow of love is deeply important for a woman. Her heart, if she is in a relationship, is like attached through an unseen string to her man's heart, and when he turns away from her mentally, or when he is not open with her physically or mentally, or if he is not fully present or trying to avoid her when she is in her feminine negative moods, then ultimately resentment will build in the relationship and her life will take a toll. She wants to feel her man's unwavering presence, love, and humor, no matter what she can throw at him or what life can throw at him. Now we're all humans so we have ups and downs but the vast majority of men don't even try.

Most woman's purpose is the flow of love in their life so they're not truly searching for their deepest purpose in the same way men are. If you were to ask most men, they wouldn't abandon their deepest mission for the sake of their woman, except if their mission is with their woman. If you were to ask most woman, they would abandon whatever goal they had for the sake of their relationship.

Self-improvement is also deeply important for women. Just like men, meditating, taking care of herself, exercising, and pursuing health and relationships, are matters that are super important for women to grow in their feminine energy and radiance and to become stronger physically or mentally, etc. This is all I can say for now about women as I don't have much information on it since I'm a man and I don't know any particular example of women speaking about living a greater life (self-improvement women's influencer).

Also, a working career can be important to a woman and it wouldn't be negative for her if she still is radiant in her feminine energy. If she becomes stressed, tense, angular, too much masculine, sharper, or way more decisive, then she is animating excess masculine energy in her work. She needs to find a new career where her feminine energy can be at home, and where she doesn't need to push out into the world too much masculine energy.

Some women might benefit from becoming a bit more decisive as they're in lack of masculine energy (we all have masculine and feminine energy) but if their feminine radiance is diminished by their career, then it's a sign something is wrong. Contributing to society whilst still being deeply feminine can also lead to a great life for women, I believe.

Conclusion

Remember that overall improving yourself is at the root of leading a better life. Being more disciplined and at home with your spiritual energy (not animating too much excess feminine energy for masculine men and vice versa for women) will get you so far ahead of the population and it will get you to heights that you maybe didn't imagine you could reach before.

That's all I have to say. I hope this article was of help to you, and thank you for reading.

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