Masculine And Feminine Energy: How They Work And What They Are

Masculine and feminine energy

The masculine and the feminine are like the two poles of the earth: they attract each other, every day. You see, the feminine attracts the masculine just like the south attracts the north or the negative attracts the positive, like two magnets being POLARIZED.

This polarization is at the root of any successful relationship. It is not love, it is attraction, and attraction often fades away as the two partners get too "neutral" in energy, or when they both tend to go toward energies they are not naturally disposed for.

For example, a feminine woman might take too much responsibility and turn more masculine than her own man, who, unconsciously or consciously, drifts toward the feminine pole. In this case, the roles have been reversed, and the situation will probably lead to problems between the two partners and eventually, maybe, a breakup.

Masculine and feminine energy are two energies you can find in both people and in life. For example, feminine energy can be found in the beautiful smile of a radiant woman as much as it can be found in the view of an incredible natural landscape.

Feminine energy is all around us because fundamentally the feminine is what is constantly moving, enlivening, what is constantly alive, and emotional: it's the trees, nature, the ground, the earth, the sun, woman, and even man in a sort of way.

Anyway, we'll explore that later. For now, let's keep talking about how masculine and feminine energies are active in our modern world. Sadly, they both have been lost. Now, don't get me wrong, there's still a bunch of feminine women, but the vast majority of them are pushed to become more and more masculine as they grow because we live in a masculine society. Not only do we live in a masculine society, but we also live in a degenerative society, especially in the West.

Look at all these degenerate women listening to rap songs, they are idolizing rappers who are telling them that they'll fuck them. And look at degenerate men listening to rap songs, they are idolizing rappers who are telling them that they'll fuck their future wives. "But it's deeper than that", no it's not.

Rap is degenerative and women are listening to that crap all day long. Beautiful, appearing feminine women are listening to rap songs. How ridiculous is that? Do you really want a woman like that? And do you really want a man like this? The good news is these people are found EVERYWHERE. Check out this article if you want to see how to change your music habits.

We spoke about feminine energy being rare in the West as a lot of women are more and more masculine, but what about masculine energy? Sadly, the same situation is found here. Men are taking less and less responsibility, and EVERY SINGLE MAN I know doesn't have a purpose. How fucked is that? They don't have a direction in life.

A man's purpose is his priority and look at them, they have nothing. They are drifting, running in circles, smoking, drinking, eating junk food, watching TV, and building up addictions, be they drug addictions or sexual addictions! 60 to 98% of men watch pornography. HOW FUCKED IS THAT!

So, in short, men have become weak, feminine, and degenerative, and women have become weak too (weak in their feminine radiance and their natural powers to the world), masculine, and degenerative. What a good society.

But is all hope lost? Frankly, no. I'm still proud to announce that we, people who share self-improvement with the general public, are making progress toward changing our society. Now sure, the vast majority of society is still weak and degenerates, but look at youngsters. Yes, the young population (15-25 years old) is still composed of weak, wimpy, skinny, or obese men, but a lot of youngsters have been converted to self-development.

I see it more and more. Young people are getting into the gym, exercising, reading, meditating, dressing better, being more religious, and being more masculine or feminine. Young men are getting at alarmingly fast rates into the gym. Young woman too! We're slowly getting a wave of self-improvement washing over our population.

Now sure, a lot of them still are degenerate, but it's still good news: our society is slowly switching, and the new generation understands the message. Not all of the youngsters in the newest generations, but a big part of them, hopefully. I think we can especially thank Andrew Tate or Hamza Ahmed for becoming so viral on social media and sharing the messages of self-improvement, even tho Andrew Tate's message is quite degenerate due to the materialism he shares and his unethical ways to make money (little reminder: he made his money off of the pornography industry).

So, now that the situation has been settled, and that the energies have been briefly presented, let's see how they truly work.

Masculine energy

Masculine energy is at the essence of spirituality. It is the contrary, the complementary opposite of feminine energy. Masculine energy is mainly found in masculine men but it is also found in masculine women. In fact, masculine doesn't necessarily rhyme with men, it's just naturally men tend to go toward this energy since we've been biologically pre-prepared for it.

Masculine energy is stoicism. It's what is constant, not moving, present and unperturbable. Imagine a tree. It is both full of feminine energy, constantly moving its branches and its leaves and fruits, but it's also truly masculine, never moving, undivided, always present, and stoic.

Masculine energy is often misunderstood in our modern society: it's believing that masculinity is having big muscles, and looking cool with the latest sunglasses and the shiny watch, but in reality, masculinity is way more than this. It's true authenticity, real confidence, and a real mission. It's pure love-giving and gift-giving.

Now sure, having muscles is a masculine trait: not only does it make you more attractive and more confident, but it can also help you become stronger mentally and physically, as well as healthier (if we're not speaking about huge bodybuilders full of steroids). But masculinity is more spiritual than this.

The priority of the masculine, in both man and woman, is purpose, or mission. If a man doesn't have a mission that jibes with his core and drives his every move, he is lost. He is weakened because at his core he is not authentic. A masculine man or a masculine woman has to follow a mission, their deepest purpose.

Their deepest purpose is uncovered through years of trying different "sub-purposes" or smaller missions. You might at first want to become a martial arts champion (sub-purpose) before discovering that you want to give your gifts fully to the world and offer everything you have to help people improve their lives (deepest purpose).

Sometimes, you will think you have found your deepest purpose and you'll discover it's only temporary, it's only a sub-purpose.

The masculine is fully present. It needs to be. You see, a man isn't defined by how much money he brings to the table anymore because women can do that too. He is defined by his depth of presence, wether he is really present or not.

Presence is a deeply masculine quality that women will fight for. A truly present man who's inserted firmly in the moment in both mind and body and not distracted by any bullshit is someone who's, by definition, truly masculine. Look at most men: they are the contrary of this. They are always checking their phones, checking their computers, playing video games, and watching TV: they are lost and striving, they don't have any purpose and they're not even present!

Also, do not sacrifice your purpose for your woman, or else she will feel it. Your woman will feel the amount of bullshit you put yourself with, she will feel you being truly elsewhere in your mind and not wanting to be with her, and she will be more hurt than you because of your actions.

Your depth of presence is a fundamental masculine trait. A man's purpose is his priority. And a man should always be striving to better himself and become wiser. This is my little grain of salt but if a man doesn't constantly educate himself, especially on his purpose, he will probably lose himself in mediocrity and childhood conditioning.

We, as men, need to constantly educate ourselves. We need to read books about our health, listen to podcasts about relationships, and read articles about spirituality (wink).

We need to slowly unravel more and more wisdom so we can become wiser and make better, and well-thought decisions. Ah! Decisions! We finally got to it. Decisions are super important for masculine energy. Decision rhymes with direction: I take this road to go here. And feminine WANT a man who's capable of decision.

When a woman tells you "Do you prefer this heel or this one?" and you can't choose, or you don't tell her what you truly prefer just to please her, you're essentially taking away from her one of your quintessential masculine gifts. You need to be honest, clear, and imperturbable in your truth (the truth of your mind, what you truly believe in).

For example, let's say your woman can't choose between red heels and blue heels. You tell her you prefer the blue, and that's your truth, that's what you truly believe in. Always tell her that whatever heel she wears, you will love her the same (and actually believe it). This is your masculine gift too, not only should you be directed in your purpose and life, as well as decisive, but you should also be able to give to your woman unperturbable and unwavering love and attention.

Yes, you should be unperturbable. Life shouldn't move you from your path. Like Moses walking through the Red Sea who's separated into two individual parts, you should be walking through life with direction and purpose. Life will hit you: deaths, sicknesses, accidents, missing the bus, losing a job or a friend.

So, even tho life hits you and tests you, be it through your woman, the death of a loved one, or the bus driving away as you run behind it, you should be able to take everything in and always look forward to the positive side of life. You should be stoic. You can cry for sure but do it alone. Be strong. Your future wife and family need a strong man.

You should be unperturbable and you should keep giving unperturbable love to your woman and the world.

Also, learn to take life with humor and see the humor of the moment. One day, after work, you might forget to pick up the milk and here you go, your woman is screaming at you. You haven't followed your word, and now look at you, you feel in a bad position. You've not been masculine enough. But hey, you can find a way to fix that, right? Nobody is perfect, right?

The solution here would be to give her unperturbable love and see the humor of the moment. How funny it is, on the scale of life or death, that your woman and you are getting caught up in that discussion about forgetting to pick up the milk after an exhausting day of work? It might not seem very funny, but live the moment with humor, take a deep breath, smile, and go and open her with love.

Open her heart, physically and spiritually. Go to her, kiss her, lift her up, act like King Kong, try to simulate a boxing fight with her, make a handstand naked, grab her arms, and put her above her head so she literally is being opened in love, surrendering to your love. Find a way to make her laugh authentically, to open her heart to love, and to both realize that you got caught up in your day-to-day stupidities instead of looking at the larger picture.

Always give unperturbable love to your woman. Compliment her 5 to 10 times a day. Don't count, just keep on giving her AUTHENTIC compliments. You should be truly authentic as a man. Feel the source where your attention comes from. It's your soul. Live from the soul. Live from your heart.

Be authentic. And truly loving. Give your gifts fully (giving everything you've got) and learn to be disciplined and consistent to do so. This is why self-improvement can help you become more masculine, and for women, it can help you become more feminine. It teaches you the masculine values of giving your gifts fully and being disciplined and consistent, and this masculine trait of discipline isn't bad in women too, a lot of feminine women are disciplined.

It helps masculine people reinforce their masculinity whilst helping feminine women reinforce their "discipline" skills so they can then use that to become wiser and give their feminine gifts fully.

Anyways, in one small paragraph: the masculine is unperturbable in his deepest purpose, mission, and in the truth that he believes in, he is fully loving with his woman and fully present, giving his gifts fully and being connected to his authetnhic soul. He is wise and strong.

Feminine energy

Feminine energy is everything that moves, it's all around us. It's nature, it's woman, it's even a bottle of fruit juice! It's everything that is enlivening, alive, full of energy, awakening the masculine soul and being truly radiant.

Have you ever seen a radiant feminine woman? She has an energy around her, she enlivens everything masculine. And, if you're masculine, she probably enlivens you. If you're feminine, you're probably attracted to her in a friendly way. This is the power of feminine energy: it enlivens the masculine and it's a quintessential energy of life. We can't live without it, and there is never a shortage of it.

Feminine energy is pure love. The priority of the feminine is the flow of love in intimacy. In other words, if a woman is full of love, being loved deeply by her man, and, if she is religious, her god, she will be radiant and feminine and happy. Now, if her man doesn't take responsibility, and if she is all day long taking responsibility and wearing the beard, then she's going to inevitably become more masculine.

And for some women, it's good to become more masculine, as some miss this important trait. Remember, we all have, independent of our sex, masculine and feminine energy inside of us. Now, we can decide to animate one or the other. And, the best is to animate the one that is truly authentic to our soul. If you're a masculine man, it's masculine energy, and, in this case, if you're a feminine woman, it's feminine energy.

The feminine is always moving, especially emotionally. The feminine is an abundant ocean of not only feminine energy but also emotion. Look at a woman like you would look at the sky. One day, it's sunny. The sky is blue, there are a few clouds here and there and the birds are singing. And, suddenly, a few hours later, the clouds set in, the birds fly away, and the sun disappears. Suddenly, it's raining, there are thunders, and then, a few hours later, it all calms down and comes back to a sunny day.

The feminine is full of emotions, changing emotions. It doesn't mean your woman should be totally crazy, crying one moment and dancing the next, laughing one moment and insulting you the next. No, that's not what I mean. What I mean is that your woman's emotions are like an ocean, it's a beautiful wave of love and light. Because of your actions and the actions of the world, she can become very emotional.

If you dismiss her even for a second whilst speaking with her because of something she said or did, it can switch INSTANTLY her feminine mood, just like it can change INSTANTLY if you give her love suddenly. The feminine is always changing, and embracing this feminine nature will help you understand your woman better.

Your woman probably does what feels right in the moment. If she is a good woman, it doesn't mean she just sits on the couch all day long whilst eating a bag of chips and watching TV. It means she does what feels true in her heart in the present moment. The feminine often doesn't look at the future or the past. They make decisions based on what feels right in the moment, and on their intuition, and they are often right. That's why feminine women count on their masculine men to make decisions firmly and clearly. They are the recipient of the quintessential masculine gift of decisiveness.

The feminine ultimate desire is surrendering into love. She loves jumping into a man's arm, letting him do the work. She loves it when her man just makes the decision, still considering her opinion, but following his deepest truth, rather than her having to make the decision.

She loves when her man gives her unperturbable presence and love, she loves when her man is following his purpose, and she loves when he makes decisions for the both of them.

She simply loves surrendering to love and letting her man do the work, knowing he will do his best. It doesn't mean she should sit back and do nothing, it's just that she loves it when her man takes purpose and direction for the couple or the family. Women want to be loved so thoroughly that their heart breaks into love and light, making them able to be themselves, truly loving, spontaneous, and emotional.

They want to be loved so thoroughly that they are almost forced to surrender to a man's love. They give up their barriers, they open totally to a man, and they search for unity: the two become one.

Feminine energy is spontaneous. And this nature makes it always changing, always in movement, the essence of feminine energy. And, this spontaneity is a truly rejuvenating feminine gift that enlivens men. Look at masculine men, they are imperturbable, present, working on themselves, following their deepest truth, trying to unravel wisdom, and being purposeful and decisive. Feminine energy will enliven these men, the spontaneity of a feminine woman will get them out of their head and into their body, into the breath, into the present.

This is the power of the feminine. It is the basis of attraction when the two poles complement each other. HOWEVER, remember, attraction ATTRACTS, but love RETAINS. When attraction is built, love often follows, and if attraction and love are there, you have an incredible recipe for a long-lasting relationship.

In this situation, both the man and the woman will be happy in their intimacy, if only both stay true to their energies.

So, if I had to summarize feminine energy in one small paragraph: feminine energy is enlivening and radiant, it is always moving and spontaneous, it is all around us and there is never a shortage of it, it is emotionally charged and its priority is the flow of love in intimacy. That's why a woman gets so caught up in love stories or soap operas. The feminine's desire is to surrender into love.

Conclusion

Both of these energies should be found in both men and women for healthy living. However, for both men and women, one of these two energies, masculine or feminine, will resonate more with the person's soul, and this energy should be animated in the vast majority.

We all have masculine and feminine energy around us, but we always have one "dominant" energy over the other, that drives our life and our soul. For the vast majority of men, it's masculine energy and for the vast majority of women, it's feminine energy, even tho the roles are being inverted in our modern society because men are becoming weaker in their masculine capacity and women are becoming weaker in their feminine beauty and radiance.

Remember tho that a good, feminine woman isn't just a stupidly spontaneous woman but often she is wise and mature and intelligent, and remember that a masculine man isn't just stupidly stoic and not emotional, but often he is also loving and emotionally connected, he only chooses to listen to or to dismiss his emotions based on what is right to him, after analysis.

Remember too that for attraction to spring between two individuals, their energies need to be different, and complementary. If you're a masculine man, don't go with a masculine woman, and if you're a feminine woman, don't go with a feminine man.

Also, remember that even tho all of this is true (I personally feel these energies in my day-to-day life and how they work and when a woman is truly feminine, etc), it's still the "hypothetical perfect theory", and if you're a man or a woman, there will be times where you'll not be perfectly masculine or feminine: because nobody is perfect. However, if you go toward the energy pole that fits your soul the most, then you'll probably grow in happiness, power, and wisdom, for both men and women.

As always, thank you for reading. I recommend learning more about both of these energies by reading David Deida's books, namely The Way Of The Superior Man for masculine men and Dear Lover for feminine women.

I'll see you next time.

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